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LA JOLLA, Calif., July 26, 2012 /PRNewswire-iReach/ — 50 Shades of A Better You
As the Fifty Shades craze continues to titillate the world, it’s safe to say that those who haven’t read, or aren’t brave enough to read the steamy trilogy…have at least heard of it. Sure it’s controversial, but sex rooms, bondage and gorgeous billionaires aside, there’s actually a significant theme within this controversial book. It’s called compromise. How many times have you compromised beliefs, schedules, values, and overall lifestyle to make things work with that special person? Even though the characters in 50 Shades takes it to an extreme, where a former virgin turns into a “whips-and-chains-excite-me” Rihanna wannabe for her new fling, this naughty fairytale reminds us how necessary compromise is to making successful relationships work. Anastasia Steele changes her life completely for Mr. Grey. How far would you change yours? We don’t necessarily think you should lose your identity, but now is a great time to stop being stubborn and actually try something new. Make a change, explore your needs, and learn how to please your own Christian Grey…and yourself in the process.
Try New Things
At some point, there’s going to come a time when you’re asked to step outside your comfort zone. Do it, and don’t look back. Now obviously, we’d never advocate you joining your lover in some weird ’70′s sex cult that’s prone to animal sacrifices and not showering, but if stepping out of your usual routine means ordering something new off the sushi menu, try it. They say sushi is an aphrodisiac anyway, so even if you don’t like it, everyone wins. Trying new things with that special person will help build trust! Unless of course they tell you wasabi is just another name for super mild edamame paste.
Be Open to Learning
One of the best parts about being in a relationship is that each person brings different skills and experiences to the table. While your flavor of the month might have some seriously handy Mr. Fix-it skills, you’ve got a serious love for travel. Take advantage of these differences and be open to learning. Even if you find it uninteresting…this is where the compromise comes in, remember? Besides, what happens when you’ve finally convinced your sweetie to go on a soul seeking travel adventure for once, and a pipe bursts? Avoid forking over $300 to a plumber, because your newfound “handyman” capabilities might surprise you.
Prioritize to Compromise
Sure your “friends night out” may have been scheduled since last Monday, but if your Boo had a bad day, it might be a good idea to reschedule. Maintaining a successful relationship does involve sacrifice, but those small compromises are inevitably for the best. When both parties work toward meeting each other’s needs, you learn what the most important factors are in making your relationship work. And it’s not always the big things. Trust us, running errands on your lunch break can wait. Sometimes just grabbing a quick bite with your hunny might be the first little step you need to take your relationship to the next level.
Listen, learning to compromise will ultimately open you to new experiences and change your outlook on life. If you do it right, it’ll be for the better. So learn to meet in the middle, embrace change, and discover the 50 new shades of you. Feeling extra steamy for Mr. Grey? We’ve got you covered.
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Karen Howard KLEA, Inc., 8582549439, email@example.com
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