Author Shares the Secrets to Connecting in ‘How To Talk To Anyone About Anything!’
filled with strangers or talking with a challenging person, author and
new book, “
“There are simple, effective ways to create meaningful conversations and
inspire trust. I’ll show you how to bring out your natural connection
abilities, in your own style,” says Spiegel.
Spiegel shares the secrets of:
*Mind messages and how they create your instant connection mindset. “Mind
messages are using the power of thought to radiate an energy that draws people
to you,” Spiegel explains. “There are three steps to the instant connection
mindset. First, send yourself mind messages of warmth and confidence. Next,
imagine yourself connecting with everyone and make that your mission. Third,
tune in to the people around you by sending them mind message of compliments.
Even before you have said a word, people instantly sense your positive energy
which makes them want to talk to you.”
*Connecting with a group. “When you see a group of people talking, you
become part of that group with one simple question. Ask, ‘Mind if I join?’ Or
‘Got room for one more?’ People feel an emotional lift when they welcome you
in,” says Spiegel.
*How to connect with people who give you unwanted advice that you don’t
agree with. Spiegel says, “They want to feel helpful. You can be diplomatic
without being defensive by saying, ‘Thanks for your advice. I’ll give that
some thought.’ Or ‘That’s an interesting idea. I’ll think it over.’ You
enhance your connections by valuing people’s opinions.”
Spiegel also shares how to converse intelligently on any subject, how to
gracefully handle your popularity and much more.
Spiegel, the great great granddaughter of Spiegel catalog founder,
Anything” and founder of motivational firm, Goal Getters which she runs with
her husband and business partner,
anything brings you happiness, meaning and a life filled with opportunities!”
Her book is available at Amazon.com and JillSpiegel.com
SOURCE Goal Getters