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Body Talk: Turn into a New Year Party Animal ; HOW YOU CAN STAND OUT FROM THE CROWD BY BOOSTING YOUR ANIMAL MAGNETISM

Posted on: Thursday, 30 December 2004, 09:00 CST

SHOW OFF YOUR CURVES

EXPERTS say the curvier a woman is, without actually being fat, the more attractive she'll be - so wearing clingy clothes helps show off the best of your body.

Men are hard-wired to seek out ladies with an even layer of fat - which makes for gentle curves.

When we lived in caves, the fat was a vital energy reserve for mothers and their babies in times of famine.

Clingy skirts or trousers also have the advantage of showing off your bum. Humans evolved from animals that walked on all fours, so the bottom was the prime sexual signal.

DITCH THE JEANS

..AND wear a mini skirt instead - they draw men's attention to you as if you were Nicole Kidman. Part of the attraction is that more exposed leg flesh leaves less to the imagination.

But it's also that long legs give a strong primeval hint that a woman has reached sexual maturity and can have children - so men subconsciously seek out ladies with longer legs.

TEETER IN HEELS

IT'S worth digging out those stilettos for New Year's Eve - even if it means a few hours of ankle agony.

High heels can give the impression that your legs are even longer, increasing your sex appeal. They also make women walk with a pronounced wiggle - showing off the bum even more.

Be careful not to overdo the heels though - especially if you're tall. Most men aren't too comfortable if they are shorter than their girlfriend.

DARE TO GO LOW

A TOP that reveals a bit of cleavage is usually a winner.

Men simply can't help ogling boobs - and it's thought that this is because breasts are a sexual signal to help compensate for the buttocks not being so prominently displayed.

So come on, dig out your chicken fillets and wonder bra.

SUBTLE SIGNALS

WOMEN'S necks are longer and more slender than men's due to the need for less muscle and smaller voice boxes. This makes swan-like necks a desirable trait.

You can make the most of this by wearing an elegant necklace, which will draw male attention to that part of your body.

Exposed shoulders are also sexy - it's thought they mirror the curve of breasts sending sexual signals. Donning a strapless dress or top can make men drool.

SCENT SENSIBLY

DON'T overdo it with perfume, as these can mask the natural, odourless chemicals - called pheromones - that are a major part of attraction and sex appeal.

Science suggests that we use these subconscious cues to find a mate who has the right DNA combination to produce healthy offspring with us - but strong scents can interfere with this process.

The contraceptive pill is also thought to affect pheromone production and could hinder a woman's ability to pick up the chemical signals from men - possibly leading to a less-than-perfect match.

FAKE A BABY FACE

MALES have been programmed to protect their children, so women with child-like features are often thought attractive.

You can use make-up to enhance these features. Use mascara for big, eyes, foundation for soft skin and blusher for childish cheeks.

Also, your lips become a deeper shade during sexual arousal, so red lipstick sends powerful attraction signals.

TRY CONTACTS

MEN seldom make passes at girls who wear glasses says the old rhyme - and scientists have proved it to be true.

A study at the University of Warwick found that wearing contact lenses instead could increase the chance of pulling by up to four times.

This may be because glasses are a proof of physical weakness - which subconsciously men don't want their offspring to inherit.

LEARN BODY-TALK BASICS

IN early times, man often needed to choose a mate very quickly.

Studies show we can make up our minds about a partner in two minutes - and that the decision is mostly down to body language rather than small talk.

Walking tall with shoulders back and chest out is a good start, and look into their eyes longer than normal.

Talk in calm, measured tones. Suggestively playing with a wine glass stem can also work wonders.

..AND IF ALL ELSE FAILS

Haven't had time for all that party prep? Here are five body- language winners for on-the-spot magnetism.

1Flick or stroke your hair. It shows you're interested and gives the guy the green light to flirt more confidently.

2Be approachable. Stand with your feet about six inches apart with toes pointed slightly inward - it signals you're confident but not overpowering.

3Smile. It's the oldest trick in the book and it will do more your than your lippy to attract a guy. It makes you look friendly and fun - just avoid that game-show grin.

4Cross your legs. It's seductive to men and it makes them want to see more.

5Over-the-shoulder gaze. The asymmetrical position attracts attention and exposes your neck. It's extra sexy because it sends the signal that your "target" is worth a second look.

Source: Daily Mirror

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