New Book Sets Etiquette Rules for Online Social Networking
A new set of rules on online etiquette is addressing issues such as rejecting a friend on Myspace or warding off an old lover on Facebook.
Britain’s etiquette bible shows social networkers how to behave with online decorum.
Debrett’s have helped to compile a new set of "golden rules" for devotees of sites like Facebook and Bebo.
Almost two thirds of social networkers are frustrated and confused by online etiquette, according to research by the telecoms company Orange.
More than a quarter of those surveyed were uncertain about how to respond to unwelcome “pokes” or messages.
Eighteen percent confessed to being confused on "how to respond to my ex when in a relationship with someone else."
Debrett’s etiquette adviser Jo Bryant acknowledged that social networking has made new demands on traditional etiquette.
"My advice is to play it safe and always employ your usual good manners when online, treating others with kindness and respect," said Bryant.
She suggests that you never throw caution to the wind when it comes to choosing a response.
"Whether you are checking your Facebook profile or posting photos of friends on MySpace at work, these guidelines will ensure you never lose old friends or make unwanted new ones," said Mark Watt-Jones, head of development and innovation at Orange.
The golden rules compiled by Debrett’s with Orange are:
1. You don’t have to make friends with people you don’t know. Think before you poke.
2. Wait 24 hours before accepting or removing someone as a friend. The delay will help you gather your thoughts.
3. Birthdays, engagements and weddings are not "virtual" events. Always send cards or phone friends when there is an important event.
4. Think before posting a friend’s photo what you would feel like if it was you.
5. Think carefully about your profile picture. Would you want it to be appearing in your local newspaper?
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