By Amy Dickinson DEAR AMY: I'm the relative of a 12-year-old girl who is unhealthily overweight, and I'm concerned for her. Her father and her mother grew up "chunky," and her mom uses that as an excuse, telling her that she'll grow out of it.

By Amy Dickinson DEAR AMY: I am dating a very, very nice man. We get along fabulously and have for the past year. There's just one problem -- his language skills.

By AMY DICKINSON Q. I am in the process of reviewing and possibly rewriting my will because many changes have taken place in my life since I first wrote it. I have been considering including notes to my children and grandchildren. My late husband was abusive to my older children and me.

By AMY DICKINSON Q. I am 13 years old. My friends, "Margaret" and "Nancy," and I are planning to perform in a talent show. I'm going to play the piano, and my two friends will sing. Nancy and I have never performed in a talent show before.

By AMY DICKINSON Q. I am a single female in my 30s. I am not into the bar scene, so I use Internet sites to meet and date men. If I like a man's profile, I write to him. Upon their reply, men immediately give me their phone numbers and ask me to call them.